520 Express your Love!
520 Express your Love!
19 May 2022
Tomorrow will be the 20th of May, so it is a special day in China. The date 520 i love is a homonym to “I love you” in Chinese: wǒ ài nǐ. Hence, it became a special day to express love in China. As the internet Valentine’s Day, it represents 一生一世, (yīshēng yīshì), which literally means “one life, one lifetime.”. Amidst COVID-19, we might need to stay at home and are unable to go out for a hangout time with friends or family. Even for Expats, life in a foreign country without social activities is something perturbing and stressful. 520 is a good day to go the extra mile to express your love to your family and friends.
Love to Your Children
Emotionally, it is worse when they have to live in an unfamiliar environment, making new friends and getting used to the new school, etc. The parents themselves are busy in their offices and are not aware of the fact that their kids can be emotionally vulnerable. Take a little time off on 520 and show them your love and concern by finding out what problems they face in this city, their concerns, and their challenges. Also, talk to their school teachers about their school life. A simple act of love will change everything in their new environment.
Love to Your Parents
Since COVID, we cannot always visit our parents like we are used to doing. Remember to call them regularly and let them know you love them. Social distancing and the city lockdowns will not be able to stop you from telling them how much you love them. Filial piety is a virtue in Chinese culture, and one must demonstrate through action and word the paramount importance of showing love and respect toward parents. Let 520 remind you to make the most out of all those moments shared with your parents, whether by phone or video call.
Love to Your Partner
Life can be overwhelming with COVID, so it is very important to support your partner in whichever way you can. Spend quality time together. You can cook a meal and go for an after-dinner walk. Give appreciation to your partner for the time you guys spent together. The emotional support may be much more valuable when physical closeness is lacking. Showing love towards your partner may bind the relationship with comfort due to the time of uncertainty.
Love to Your Friends
One major study claims that friendship may turn out to be more important for our physical and mental health than the near and dear ones and spouses. We may have a different life structure with our friends, but it can give you spiritual support by sending a solicitous message like “Hey! What’s up?” reach out to them. For the Chinese people, 520 is an opportunity to express gratitude to an extended family—friends.
Have a wonderful 520, and don’t hesitate to express your love! Whether through a meaningful text, a phone call, or even a hug sent virtually, do let the people in your life know how special they are. This day is not for love alone; it is also for cherishing every dear relationship in life.
Finally, if you have any questions about moving, you are always welcome to contact your local Asian Tigers office, or you can contact us via our online contact form.
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